First, the numbers

Ghosting in the hiring process is unfortunately not a rare exception. According to a survey by karriere.at from November 2025, 84 percent of job seekers have already experienced ghosting. 77 percent more than once. And yes, that is just as absurd as it sounds. You invest hours into a well-crafted application and the company simply goes silent.

Source: karriere.at survey, November 2025 (1,077 respondents)

Apart from being genuinely unprofessional: it costs you energy, nerves and in the worst case weeks of uncertainty. That is exactly why it helps to know how to handle it when it happens.

When is it actually ghosting?

Not every delay is ghosting. Recruiting processes sometimes take longer than planned, HR managers get sick, internal decisions drag on. That is just the reality in a lot of companies.

A good rule of thumb: if the company gave you a timeline, wait 3 to 4 days past that deadline before following up. If no timeline was given, 9 to 10 days after applying is a reasonable point to reach out. After an interview, two weeks without a response is a solid trigger to follow up.

Step 1: Follow up, politely

Following up is completely fine and not a sign of impatience. Quite the opposite: it shows genuine interest. The key is tone. Keep it short, friendly and free of any accusation.

"Hi Sarah, I just wanted to check in on my application from [date] and see if there is an update on the timeline for next steps. I am still very much interested in the role and happy to answer any questions."

That is it. No demands, no passive-aggressive undertone. Just clear and human. One email is enough. A phone call works too if you have a direct number.

Step 2: Accept the reality

If there is still no response after following up: yes, that is ghosting. And yes, it says more about the company than it does about you. A company that communicates like this during the application process probably communicates the same way once you are on board.

Set yourself a personal deadline. Something like: "If I hear nothing by Friday, I will follow up once more and then mentally move on." That sounds blunt but it protects your energy and keeps you from spiralling.

Step 3: Keep going

This sounds obvious but it really is the most important thing. Do not write off the application before you have followed up at least once. And if silence continues after that: move on. Next company.

Something else you can do: leave your experience on Ghosted.Global. Anonymously, in 2 minutes. Not out of frustration but so the next person knows what they are walking into. And so companies that do this systematically start feeling the pressure.

What to take into your next application

  • Before applying, check how the company is reviewed online, including their hiring process
  • Ask directly in the interview: "What does your typical timeline look like from here?"
  • Apply in parallel, not sequentially. Ghosting happens too often to wait on one response at a time
  • Keep track of your applications with dates so you know exactly when to follow up

The short version

Ghosting is unfortunately common and this probably will not be the last time you experience it. What you can control is how you respond. Follow up once, set a deadline and then move forward. Your time and energy are too valuable to pour into someone else's silence.

And if you want: leave your experience on Ghosted.Global. It takes you 2 minutes. For the next applicant it might be exactly the information they needed.